I'm an ESL student and wonder if these 4 sentences all mean the very same. Which one(s) would you be more likely to use? <br/><br/>1, " I'd much rather you stayed here INSTEAD OF of going home." <br/><br/>2, " I'd much rather you stayed here AND NOT go home." <br/><br/>3, " I'd much rather you stayed here THAN go home." <br/><br/>4, " I'd much rather you stayed here RATHER THAN go home.