This is a distinction that, as a native speaker, I have never thought much about, but your relationship vs. function distinction seems to be a pretty useful rule. In the example you give, I would say that the report is not "for" the incident - after all, the incident was over before the report ever existed, so the report is not serving any function for the incident.
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