I know this situation, and I don't like the commas, since they give the reader a false first impression of the structure and s/he must go back to check it. I'd use these: John, Bill, and Greg each went his separate way/to the movies/bought one icecream etc Vanilla, chocolate, or banana: which would you choose? Vanilla, chocolate, or banana – which would you choose?
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