The brackets do, indeed, mean that the use of 'that' is not mandatory. It is common to have 'that' omitted in natural (British) English, especially in speech.
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hanuman_2000e.t.c.do not put stops after the first two letters in that abbreviation. Most speakers of BrE would not put a stop after the final letter, either.