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Taka Posted 20 years ago
Grammar

proud

We are proud of him and proud for him.

http://www.depts.ttu.edu/communications/news/display_article.php?id=1582

What is the difference between 'proud of' and 'proud for'?

Is 'proud for' grammatically acceptable? None of my dictionaries has it as an entry.
  

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Hi Taka, No, I don't think 'proud for' is acceptable. It's no wonder your dictionaries don't have it, because I don't think it exists in proper English. Vince

  • Hi Taka, No, I don't think 'proud for' is acceptable.
  • It's no wonder your dictionaries don't have it, because I don't think it exists in proper English.
  • Vince
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Hi Taka,

No, I don't think 'proud for' is acceptable. It's no wonder your dictionaries don't have it, because I don't think it exists in proper English.

Vince
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Vince
Hi Taka,

No, I don't think 'proud for' is acceptable. It's no wonder your dictionaries don't have it, because I don't think it exists in proper English.

Vince

I agree. We are proud of (never proud for) him.
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At the New York Times the hits are 350-2 in favor of "proud of them" (vs. "proud for them").

Clear cut.
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for = in place of The I in IBM stands for International.

We are proud of him. = We have a feeling of pride toward him.
We are proud for him. = We share the feeling of pride that he has toward himself.

Compare: We are happy for him.

CJ
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CalifJim
We are proud of him. = We have a feeling of pride toward him.
We are proud for him. = We share the feeling of pride that he has toward himself.

Compare: We are happy for him.
Yes, this is right. I knew about it, but I got confused in the stats
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CalifJimfor = in place of The I in IBM stands for International.

We are proud of him. = We have a feeling of pride toward him.
We are proud for him. = We share the feeling of pride that he has toward himself.

Compare: We are happy for him.

CJ

Very inte
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So, Is the 'for' in 'I feel sorry for him' the same?
I would say so. Let's say that he is feeling sorry because of something that happened to him. I feel sorry, too, "in his place". Hence, I feel sorry for him.

CJ
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I don't know how other members feel; but it seems to me that in a rhetorical structure of this kind, where two prepositional phrases are yoked together, as long as the first prepositional phrase is unexceptional, the second can be quite unusual, or even a novelty, in order to jolt the reader/listener, e.g.

1. We are proud of him... ] unexceptional set phrase; the listener nods or smiles.
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Mr. P.,
I'm hard pressed to come up with an example other than the one already quoted. Well , of course, there's the famous Lincoln rhetoric of the people, for the people, and by the people, if that's the sort of thing you have in mind. (I may have the order wrong.) Do you have any others? (I'm sure you do. You're always a few steps ahead of me in the creativity department

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