It all started when I was watching a movie and within the movie, one of the actors starting saying a compound sentences with negatives and double negatives in them. I was wondering how I couldn't figure the sentences out but my friends could, so I started to feel that maybe something is wrong with me. After that movie, I started analyzing every negative sentence thrown at me and would have trouble understanding it most of the time. The funny thing is that up till now, I have been understanding and using negative sentences just by letting it slide past me and not analyzing it. But when I stopped to analyze to see if I really understood why the sentence meant what it meant, the " not " started to bother me.
So I tried getting some help at school by asking someone at the tutoring center. The person I asked started off with an easy sentence: "I am not a student." He kept saying, " You are just not a student. Not a student." Which didn't help much. Then I asked, " But you could also be a fireman, a police officer, a teacher, right?" and he said, " Yes, but in this sentence it just means you are not a student." He did not help me much because he kept using the problem I had in his answer, but at least it cleared up some confusion.
For a year now, I have been trying to find new ways to understand negative sentences. Here are things I tried doing, but only helped sometimes.
- Read the sentence with the "not", then take it out and read the sentence without the "not."
- Consider "not" as "NO" because that is the definition of "not" in some old dictionaries. Sometimes it works, but it's confusing for my mind to say, " He does no want to go" instead of "He doesn't want to go."
- Mentally make a NO sign equivalent to the NO SMOKING sign, and put that sign over the words coming after the word "not".
- Finally, thinking of "not" as a percentage... e.g. " It is not hot" = " It is 0 percent hot"
I don't know if there are anyone with the same problem, but everyone I asked always tell me this is easy to understand and it makes me feel like something is wrong with me. But since this is an english forum, I might as well ask before It drives me crazy.
The other thing giving me problems is the word " cannot." If someone said " I cannot go to school" by hearing it so much, I would understand, but when I break it down, it doesn't make sense. So I take out the not, " I can go to school" = " I am able to go to school" Then I just ignore the "I" now and just say "able to go to school" and " not able to go to school" until I understand it. So everytime I hear "cannot", I have to changed it into "able" and put the "not" in front of "able" to understand it.
I could go on and on about the people I met and asked, but I'll just get straight to the question. Does anyone know a trick or an easy way of understanding a sentence with " not " or " cannot ". I'll be truly grateful for any advice. Thanks.