" The second one is fine. The first one would have the same meaning, but the use of tense is not idiomatic in this case. You could substitute the past perfect for the present perfect, and it would be idiomatic.
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Anonymous"Paul has never met his father because his father died when he was 4."
"Paul didn't know his father because he died when Paul was 4."The second one is fine.