And I could,t believe you have a 21-year old daughter and a 9-yearold son, and yet, you have a very dynamic spirit. I always thought I'll be no longer active, no entertaitment,... if I had a kid. That's why I couldn't convince myself, though the clock is ticking, and I've been married for 6 years and a half, to even think about it! Despite the fact that my husband adores kids!