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"LOVE" its the most important and a very delicate word to be discussed in the world of debators.Though I am not at all an expert to give any defination to this word still i have tried to define it as per my understanding of the word.If at all I do some mistake in the proces i apolgies for the same .
The word 'LOVE' can be expanded in the following way

L for Longing
O for Observing
V for Valuing
E for Emoting

Starting with LONGING its an important aspect of love.Longing is essential to love anyone and a basic charachterstic of any relationship with love as its spine.One has to long to love his partner . Unless and untill one does not long to love THYSELF one cannot love any other person. Longing to take responsibilities which comes with the relationship one has.Longing to fulfill the expectations of his/ her loved ones.This actually is the basis of love and is responsible for the strong base of any relationship.One has to long to live with the partner in all the odds as well as evens of life.Longing to accept the person as he or she is makes the relationship more stable and strong.

Following this comes the other aspect of love is OBSERVING.It means one has to observe the likesand dislikes of one's beloved.This helps in understanding the partner more easily and minimise the level of misunderstandings as well as lack of cumunication between them.Obesrving helps to know the on and off of moods of ur partner and helps to act accordingly .The aspect always helps in changing the attitude of ur partner as per ur wishes without inposing it on them.One can always avoid any confontration between them.Observation includes the likes ,dislikes , the intellectual aspects, the extent of introvertness as wel as extroverness in ones partner. The observation makes one understand the beloved in a more spiritual manner. It increases depth and intensity of understanding between them.

Another important pillar of Love is VALUING.Valuing comprises of the most important factor of ones innerself which is known as SELF RESPECT .WE need to respect the other self in a relationship and value his or her existence.One has to pamper and look towards the tantrums of one's beloves in any relationship.Valuing the beloved makes him or her important in the eyes of the lover and in turn builds a trust btween them.One should also keep in mind to retain their value in front of their beloved. We should always have the sense of SELF RESPECT and DIGNITY. Valuing onself raises the Respect in eyes of the partner makes them more relaible.But this valuing should never be taken as attitude . Attitude will never be the base of any relationship as it increases the disance between the couple.

Last but not the least comes "EMOTING". Its the most esssential point of any relationship.Unless and untill we don't convey our love for the other we cannot look for any solid relationship .Emoting ones liking for the partner and giving the gestures which alwys makes the other person feel secure strengthens the bond between the two.

Though its wrong to bind the definition of LOVE in certain parameters of words , but without any ofence towards any other definition this my way of defining LOVE.
Hope i haven't hurt anyones feeling.