I think: Dear ***, (Many) thanks for your invitation. I'm very/really sorry that I did not go/come to your marriage (if it happened)/I can not go/come to your marriage because I have not checked my mailbox for one month. ( Another way you can use: "Apologizes for not going/coming to your marriage because ...
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