Without context it is nearly impossible to say which is most natural. I don't think I would say the third one, but in the right situation either the first or the second are quite natural. You would have to be speaking from the point of view of the past to say the first one, as when relating events in the past, then perhaps suddenly remembering her attitude about her son's wedding, which had taken place even earlier than the events you were currently relating.
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