" -- but that will make you sound very stuffy and is no longer really used. Even though "whom" is correct in your second example, it's just about never used at the start of a sentence -- almost always you'll hear the ungrammatical "Who" when you have the "to" at the end. " (Your subject line should be "Placing of prepositions")
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