I would not touch her with10-foot-pole . Touch with a ten-foot pole = deal at all with; usually used with a form of negation. The whole nine yards = all of a related set of circumstances, conditions, or details; <who could learn the most about making records, about electronics and engineering, the whole nine yards -- Stephen Stills> -- sometimes used adverbially with go to indicate an all-out effort.
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