Very often there is no knowing for certain. English has an extremely rigid word order and in many cases certain collocations have acquired a certain meaning over very long periods of time. If the participle is after a noun, which is the case in some of your examples, the participle can be just a clause equivalent, or a reduced clause, as many native speakers call such structures: We had to pay for the room [that was] used.
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