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Why is it hard for men to comprehend what women need, and why do women feel that men lack emotion? For most people, this question is very difficult to answer. Men and women who are in relationships complain too much about their partners. Bother genders have different ways of building their relationships with other people. Their beliefs and the way they view the importance in a relationship lead them to misunderstand the situations they come across every day. What people do not realize is that men and women have different understanding, attitudes, behavior, and expectations about building a relationship with the opposite sex.

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