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Grammar

Need Guidance

May I know whether it is polite to reply as follow "It is a shame that you won't be able to attend, but we do hope to see you at more convenient timed event"? How to use the word shame?

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To a native speaker, the use of "shame" here is fine. However, it may leave a learner confused. He might think that it's shameful not to be able to attend.

  • To a native speaker, the use of "shame" here is fine.
  • However, it may leave a learner confused.
  • He might think that it's shameful not to be able to attend.
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To a native speaker, the use of "shame" here is fine. However, it may leave a learner confused. He might think that it's shameful not to be able to attend.

"It's a shame (that) you won't be able to attend, but we do hope to see you at a more convenient time."
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You could use "pity" instead of "shame", which would avoid the possible double meaning of "shameful".

Edwy
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Even though "pity" can be substituted for "shame", it may also be misunderstood by a learner. One might think that if he doesn't attend, then he is to be pitied. But I have to admit that in this context, more people use "pity" than "shame".
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Dear Teacher Eric,

Thank you very much for helping me in understanding the sentence.

I have seen the words "your goodself" being used in a formal letter writing but I can't find the word in dictionary. May I know what does the phrase mean? When and how to use it?
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As three words, 'your good self' is a formally polite and somewhat dated way of saying 'you'. Where it appears now, it is often used mock-politely between familiars. I would suggest that you not overuse it, as it can sound rather stilted.

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