To "mince" words is to affect a certain tone of conciliation for the purpose of winning over the audience. Let us say that you had something to say to a person, but you were hesitant because the reaction might not be pleasant. So, you affect a certain tone of voice, or, you choose very carefully your words, so as not to offend.
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