My first name is Armond. I pronounce my name "R-mund" (accent on the first syllable). I have been using this name for almost 62 years and I have grown used to its faults and virtues. I definitely cannot be argued out of my pronunciation preference.
It often happens that new acquaintances upon hearing my name decide it should be pronounced "ar-MONDE" (accented heavily on the second syllable) which I suppose sounds somewhat French. Many seem to insist upon it even when I myself, my wife, or others make a point of pronouncing the name according to my preference in conversation.
I know there are many persons named Armond who pronounce their own name "are-MONDE," but as far as I'm concerned that's their business. I want what I want, and I want it now. I am looking for a few suggestions on how I can inform my new acquaintances in a polite fashion that they must obey my wishes. I suggest that there are broader applications for such techniques beyond addressing my obvious vanity.
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Good luck and good sailing.
s/v Kerry Deare of Barnegat
http://kerrydeare.home.comcast.net/