Dear Pleasehelp, More than one of my friends is gone is correct. It follows grammatical concord (this kind of concord is usually obeyed with more than and many a ). The subject is notionally plural (=Many friends are gone), but the singular is preferred because one is analysed as the head of a noun phrase.
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