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Anonymous Posted 18 years ago
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Let me pass!

On a flight, halfway across the Altlantic, having had plenty to drink beforehand and having just awoken bursting for a pee, the aisle blocked by a enormous fat American woman, (that probably would need a seatbelt extension,) who is on her knees jammed between the two opposing seats having a chin wag with other passengers, what would be the most polite way to ask this individual to let you pass?
  

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Hi, Excuse me, please. Clive

  • Hi, Excuse me, please.
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19 Answers
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Hi,
Excuse me, please.

Clive
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So are you saying the imperative is the most polite way to ask someone to do something?
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Hi,
Yes.
In terms of what is commonly said.

Clive
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An alternative in BrE would be "Could-I-just-um...", with a motion of the eyebrows in the desired direction of travel.

MrP
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The more indirect you are the more polite you will appear (up to the point where the other person thinks you are taking the **** out of them of course) so, let me think, what is the most indirect, long-winded way I could ask that question. Hmm, how about: Ahem, would madam be offended if I were to ask her if she would be so kind as to allow me to pass.
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I see 'excuse me' as a request not an imperitive. It's very polite.
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"Excuse me" is the standard polite way to ask someone to let you pass, whether the person is enormous, American, or otherwise.
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Excuse me, please is the right way.
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nona the britI see 'excuse me' as a request not an imperitive.
Well it is imperative, not a request. A request would have a subject noun or pronoun. Would/could you allow me through? Could I pass?
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Hi,

In form it's an imperative, but in normal social situations it is seen as a request, particularly when accompanied by 'Please'.

As with all language, of course, the accompanying actions, tone , facial expression etc.come into play.

Joking aside, if you don't favour 'Excuse me, please', what is your suggestion for the most suitable thing to say?

Best wishes,

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