It seems to me that "get to know" implies spending quite a bit of time with someone, having a lot of conversation with them, gradually learning all about them. Saying you want to get to know someone sounds a lot friendlier than saying you want to know them. In fact, saying "I want to know you better" will probably be taken as rude.
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