The "/" has many names, depending on its use. In your example, the terms "forward slash" or "forward stroke" are applicable, and if it's necessary to make every character clear when you read the salutation, use one of those. Both "sir slash madam" and "sir strike madam" have an uncomfortable collision with the verbs.
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