Hello,<br/><br/>Which is the more common alternative in everyday English:<br/><br/>Joe <i><b>tells</b></i> me you are tired.<br/><br/>Joe <i><b>told</b></i> me you are/were tired.<br/><br/>Personally, I'd use the first sentence (the verb <b><i>tell</i></b> is in the present simple and there is no backshift needed).