Since this is an opinion, rather than a definition or correction of grammar, I should start with a disclaimer: "love is likely the most misunderstood concept in our lives". "You love who you love" may be lyrically useful but is not grammatical or sensible. "You love whom you love" is rather philosophical but not useful.
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