Many grammarians prefer to have an object followed by an infinitive after expect: I didn't expect you to hate me. I'm with them. However, if you want to have a that clause after expect , you must observe the sequence of tenses, which in this case requires would after the past tense did: I did n't expect that you would hate me.
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