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khoffI think it should be "who." You're not talking about "the essence of somebody," but "the essence of [who the grandmother was.]"I understand that and it makes sense. What was throwing me off was that I was treating "grandmother" as the object in the second clause (which could be rearranged to "the grandmother was whom"), but "was" doesn't quite function a