She wished she could grant them what they want.<br/><br/>Or should it be<br/><br/>She wished she could grant them what they wanted.<br/><br/>(This line is in a short story Im writing in the past tense.)<br/><br/>Which one should I use?<br/><br/>Also...for...<br/><br/>They should respect an honorable man such as himself.<br/><br/>Should it be him or himself?<br/><br/>thanks so much!!