Hi Steve, Usually we say "shall we say" before we describe something unpleasant in nicer terms. It is understating the problem on purpose, and the phrase "shall we say" is the clue that you know it's worse than what you said. " Among other reasons to use it is that no one can say to Jenna that I called her son a horrible, spoiled brat.
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