It's quite okay to be 'assertive' (your 2nd person) and insist on paying, even to the point of dismissing the other person's idea of paying. But if the other person (your 1st person) responds to that by also asserting, then you need to insist on each taking a share, because it doesn't do to have two people asserting they will pay. d
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