I would say 'was' , so you talk about something happened in the past.
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kenny1999Present or Past?What do you wish to emphasize most?
kenny1999The wedding night is obviously a past event.Is it this? Then use the past.
kenny1999However, it is still something in my mind now.Is it this? Then use the present.