Both seem OK to me.
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PreciousJonesI think it should be was since the game was over when he said it.No. It doesn't have to be was. Note the timelessness and abstraction of "That is". That is, was, and always will be "what he tried to do that night". The usual choice in these cases is "That is what/where/how ...". Note the noun clause after "That is".