I don't like either one here, but I believe "incongruent" is the better choice. Your statement really lacks the necessary parallelism. A is incongruent with B.
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I think both " Incongruous" & "Incongruent" are eminently OK.
Just as "Incongruity" & "Incongruence" are same nouns with alternative inflection affixes.