<i> There are more ups and downs <b>in relationships</b> than...</i><br/><br/><i>There are more ups and downs <b>with having a partner</b> than...</i><br/><br/>Is the second OK, specifically 'with'?<br/><br/>'in' doesn't seem to work, but I'm unsure about with either.<br/><br/>(I know I could change it to a clause 'when having a partner')<br/><br/>Thanks