Use them in the same situations in which you would use 'in' or 'of' in speech or informal writing, but for which you wish a more formal expression: 'This is the basket I arrived in' -- 'This is the basket in which I arrived'. 'He is the son I am proudest of' -- 'He is the son of whom I am most proud'.
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