'You are impossible' here means 'you are incorrigible, you are impossible to correct/convince/change; you are always contrary'. ). To 'throw up one's hands' is an idiom deriving from the tendency to do just that-- raise one's arms and then release them-- as a gesture of despair or frustration, etc.
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