Unless there's some exception I'm not immediately thinking of, this is actually an easy distinction to make: "Coming" is only used when you are already at the place to which you are referring . "Going" is used otherwise. There are some situations in which both can be used (at least colloquially), but if you follow this rule you won't go wrong.
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