I'm stepping in. I'm putting my foot down.

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I often watch a sitcom "friends".Then I wonder about this expression."I'm stepping in. I'm putting my foot down."At season 7 That situation was that one of friends's charaters donate the money. But she hesitate;Then a man said "I'm stepping in. I'm putting my foot down."What is mean??thank you

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[nq:1]I often watch a sitcom "friends". Then I wonder about this expression. "I'm stepping in. I'm putting my foot down." ... donatethe money. But she hesitate; Then a man said "I'm stepping in. I'm putting my foot down." What is mean??[/nq]
These are two separate expressions and they don't need to be used together. They can be used independently.
"Stepping in" (into) a situation implies that the speaker was an observer of the situation until, at some point he was moved to voice an opinion or otherwise participate. He was on the sidelines, but has now moved into the field of action or discussion. The "stepping in" usually indicates that that person feels the situation is going all wrong, or that it needs stopping or correcting.
"Putting my foot down" means that one of the participants in a situation is now taking control and directing the action. Others may differ, but I find this means that the person who is putting his/her foot down is usually going to forbid or prevent an action. It means "I am going to stand firm (that is, putting his foot down firmly, anchoring himself in that place.) and prevent you from going ahead with your proposed action."

The "putting his foot down" person may have been part of the discussion from the beginning, and need not have been the interloper who just "stepped in".

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It's also a joke on usage. Either of these idioms used separately would not have drawn any attention, but put them together, and the audience is going to notice (and hopefully be amused by) the oddness of two idioms being used together which both evoke the mental image of a foot coming down but which mean two entirely different things.

Raymond S. Wise
Minneapolis, Minnesota USA
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[nq:1]It's also a joke on usage. Either of these idioms used separately would not have drawn any attention, but put ... used together which both evoke the mental image of a foot coming down but which mean two entirely different things.[/nq]
In the realm of mixed metaphors it might be characterized as "shaken, not stirred".

Odysseus

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[nq:1]I often watch a sitcom "friends". Then I wonder about this expression. "I'm stepping in. I'm putting my foot down." ... But she hesitate; Then a man said "I'm stepping in. I'm putting my foot down." What is mean?? thank you[/nq]
If people put their foot down, they use their authority in order to stop something happening.
dwjo

I'm stepping in. I'm putting my foot down.

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