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Apatzinguense Posted 4 years ago
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If you don't mind/ If you wouldn't mind

It is my understanding that the meaning of the conversational phrase "if you wouldn't mind/if you don't mind" is

to politely tell someone what you intend to do. Please look at the below dialogue:

A: I'm afraid he's busy. Would you like to come back another time?
B: I'd rather wait, if you wouldn't mind.

A: .............

What would be the appropriate answer/s from person A after person B uses "if you wouldn't mind" as in the example above.

Can he/she say?

1. No, I don't mind

2. Sure

3.???????

I have heard people answer "sure", but it means "Yes"... Right? So, that would mean that person A doesn't want person B to wait around... Correct? Please let me know.

  

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apatzinguense What would be the appropriate answer/s from person A after person B uses "if you wouldn't mind" as in the example above. Any vaguely affirmative polite utterance will do. "Very well" is a good one.

  • apatzinguense What would be the appropriate answer/s from person A after person B uses "if you wouldn't mind" as in the example above.
  • Any vaguely affirmative polite utterance will do.
  • "Very well" is a good one.
  • To take "if you don't mind" literally would insult me.
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apatzinguenseWhat would be the appropriate answer/s from person A after person B uses "if you wouldn't mind" as in the example above.

Any vaguely affirmative polite utterance will do. "Very well" is a good one. To take "if you don't mind" literally would insult me.

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