Great question and example. Both usages are correct. In American English, they are practically interchangeable, but if I had to distinguish their slight differences: 1: The use of past tense ("if I said how I felt ") gives the sentence a tone of retrospect, suggesting that the speaker is concerned about the result if the condition is followed.
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