Hello group! Could someone help with the following doubt I have?
The context: a toast at a wedding. The toast starts "From your family and friends" I thought "familY and friends" made it sound as if the toast was coming from one of the couple's families rather than both families as I think the intention was. For that I was had a go at by someone saying that "family and friends" is an idiom that already means plurality (i.e: the members of the family, not just a person in the family). I tried to argue that if anything, family was a collective or group name meaning the plurality of the members in that one family, but it still sounds to me as it should be familIES if the intention is for the toast to come from both the groom's and the bride's families (and their friends).
Am I completely wrong? Does the idiom "family and friends" mean any number of families connected to the persons it relates to?
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[nq:1]Hello group! Could someone help with the following doubt I have? The context: a toast at a wedding.
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[nq:1]Hello group!
Could someone help with the following doubt I have?
The context: a toast at a wedding.
The toast ...
completely wrong?
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