Much more likely to say it before she leaves. If she had already gone and wrote a postcard or spoke on the 'phone, Emma is much more likely to use the continuous tense and say "I hope you are watering the plants". She could say "Don't forget to water the plants" after she had gone and her flatmate wouldn't think it was strange, but the continuous form is more usual.
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