Hotel is one of several words that have an unstressed but pronounced initial /h/ ( Hawaii, Havana, hallucination ). As for speaking, say a hotel or an hotel -- whichever is easier for you. As for writing, a hotel -- the standard a before a consonant sound-- is far and away the most common.
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