Humiliate is much stronger than embarrass. If I fell over my shoelaces and landed on my rump in front of you, I might be a bit embarrassed. If I fell and my skirt flew up revealing I had on no underwear, and did this while performing live at the Superbowl, an event broadcast to millions, and the pictures were on the front page of newspapers around the world, I would be humiliated.
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Grammar GeekIf I fell and my skirt flew up revealing I had on no underwear, and did this while performing live at the Superbowl, an event broadcast to millions, and the pictures were on the front page of newspapers around the world, I would be humiliated.It may also mean you're Janet Jackson
Akavallcould it be that humiliation is a sub-category of embarrassment?Yes. That might be a good way of looking at it. Extreme forms of embarrassment also get the name "humiliation", even when accidental. But the active form of the verb can't be used in those cases because no one did the humiliating. Something just happened, and it was so embarrassin
To be embarrassed is to have your weaknesses or flaws exposed, either by others or by oneself.
To be humiliated is to have your weaknesses or flaws exploited, either by others or by the circumstances.
For example, a student may be embarrassed by the teacher when the teacher calls on them for an answer and the student is exposed for not knowing it. However, the student ma