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In all his failures only blame themselves is wrong because you may get a guilt complex.
I don’t know those people have strong personality or not. Just the faint person always complains: - " I'm blame for everything, I'm a loser."
My friend was fired from his job, I ask him: - "Well, how are you?" And he says: - "I'm OK, let they will seek such a good worker like me, and I'm so in great demand I will find a new job quickly."
Here's how should one look at the situation )) and the other fell into a anabiosis, and blamed himself for not working so well.
Life is one, and during this period we should enjoy our life and achieve our goals and we shouldn’t complain and blame ourselves.
In all of our failures to blame others, it is also wrong. So many people have a habit of blaming their problems and problems of your company to others.
One should have a middle ground. You should approach the situation adequately, without extremes. First you have to determine the responsibility where is your and where is someone else - and then the blame should be assessed.
In some situations we should considered a failure as a sign that we should go further but rethinking and changing the strategy to achieve the goal.
In order to become champion sportsman many practicing going through injuries and losses.
The man who only blames others, this person is not ready to change himself or change something in his life. He will always accuse that someone is guilty.
He can not change either himself or others in this life. He can not change anything in this life and he just goes with the flow. The person who accuses himself, he sees his mistake and he finds the strength to change himself and change others. He is able to go against the flow.
I don't get it, why do we always want to blame someone or look for the guilty person
If there is a problem it must be determined we should seek a way out of it, but we don't blame ourself or anyone else. I think the searching for the guilty person - is a dead end.
Step is to engage in concrete! A strong man doesn’t blame anyone he solve the problems he doesn’t complain whether he is guilty, or someone else.
If something goes wrong, it is futile to look for who is right or wrong ... We should to find the cause, which led to undesirable consequences, and to direct all forces in its elimination.
A statement that we should blame ourselves and not others - it is about what we should take responsibility for our lives. Do not complain, but to act in the best of our ability to benefit ourself, do not wait till our fellow men become wiser, and the situation will change itself.
Long, long ago in ancient times there was a ritual of taking off with the blame.
If you feel blame for something. You need to find a goat and put your hands on his head and lay down your blame on him.
The goat over whose head one confess the someone’s blame, was then taken into the wilderness and allowed to escape, symbolically taking all the sins with him and giving everyone a fresh start, sin-wise. This lucky goat was known as the "escape goat," or "scapegoat".