I don't think that the various verb phrases are so easily sortable, Mara-- individual and regional preferences come too much into play. I, for instance, could easily ask a student whether s/he has ever been to / gone to Saipan , with no difference in meaning (= has s/he ever visited Saipan). -- these options too seem equally natural to me (though other speakers may have preferences).
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