I am pretty sure that "how you are" is the right one because, if there is no question, there is no need of inversion. For me it does sound natural, but I may be wrong.
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Laborious- First you tell me how you are and then we will proceed further.The indirect question (a noun clause which is the object of ask, tell, etc.) does not employ the subject-verb inversion pattern.