You can take out the relative pronoun 'that' when it serves as an object or adverbial, and when taking it out does not otherwise cause confusion. 'I wanted her to think (that) I loved her' -- this is OK. Object of 'think' 'This is the book that has been on the best seller list' -- can't be omitted.
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