the first one doesnt make much sense at all.. the problem seems to be that you want to use "as" to link the two ideas - but the 2 halves of the sentence do not really relate to each other that way ... the ideas seem to be expressed in these ways: the new things were HARD for her as she was unused to asking for help everything was new to her, but she was too (stubborn/proud /shy) to ask for help
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