He loved his wife's having murdered 2 people -- Here, the wife did the murdering. Your other sentence is not possible at all.
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Mister MicawberHe loved his wife's having murdered 2 peopleIs,he loved the murdering of his wife. Or he loved his wife's action of murdering.