Have you ever had arguments with your friends? - from any time in the past up to the moment you say this.
Do you ever have arguments with your friends? - these days, where "these days" is interpreted loosely as any time near or around the moment you say this.
Did you ever have arguments with your friends? - during those times, where the people in the conv
Oh.. thank you very much. I wanted to know each of the interpretations, not tense... (I should have asked a little clearer so no other question point to be made).